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It may be hard to have a conversation with the guy who knows you like him as you talk to him. It's not the end of the world. I'll be giving you a situation, for instance, you told one of your guy friends whom you're crushing on, and you didn't know he was friends with the one you like. And you really are pretty sure he told him you like him. Now my crush goes out of his way to stare at me, and he gets quiet and awkward when I see him. Oh G*d, what am I suppose to act around him? Come on girl, I'll give you tips to stay cool and keep your feet from being caught. :)
DON'T MAKE A MOUNTAIN OUT OF A MOLEHILL.
Contrary to popular belief, your life will not end just because he know you like him. If he makes fun of you, then there is something seriously wrong with him If anything, knowing you like him should spark his interest even more--- it'll definitely get him to notice you.
START WITH EMPLOYING FEW TRICKS TO MAKE HIM NOTICE YOU WITHOUT GOING TOO FAR AND FREAKING HIM OUT.
A really good one is to, while you're talking, look into his eyes for a second, then look away and smile and blush if you can manage it. Maybe twirl and fix your hair with one hand. He'll eventually knows you like him anyway, you maybe as well be cute about it.
ACT NATURAL.
Don't act defensive around him and start ignoring him. That will just weird him out.
IF YOUR CRUSH IS A SHY-TYPE,
and doesn't really talk to you, don't get upset. Don't get your hopes too high, then talk to him confidently and to-the-point as he may not get annoyed.
ALWAYS, ALWAYS SMILE.
It puts him at ease and lets him know you enjoy being around him. if you don't think you have a good looking smile, practice making faces in the mirror (Embarrassing, of course, yet it really works) until you're confident in all your expressions. Once you've got the muscle sequences down, you're all set.
THINK OF IT AS A TURNING POINT.
If he finds out you like him, it's up to him to deal with what he just found out. If he acts on it positively, that could be the start of something good. If he remains NR (No Reaction), then it could mark the end of the era. That's not such bad thing either.
DRIVE ANOTHER EXPERIMENT.
If you can't handle the embarrassment, you could actually use the experience to move on and find a new guy to crush on.
The huge ego is just a bold front, dig deeper and you will find most guys deep down are quite shy and most likely need a little push to get things going. Some males will take advantage of you instead of liking you. It is to always think that some men have shallow mind too when it comes to direct physical attraction. They may even forget you the next time you meet them. Although for you it is the only way to make him know that you like him. Having guys to like us is pretty tough especially if the guy is pretty occupied. We like them to like us emotionally and be committed to us. We like them to never forget us the next time you meet again. The tips I've given are not guaranteed effective, still it depends upon you, on how you act and make your own way to be noticed and also somehow deal with the guy you're






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